The Ultimate 2019 Gay Younger Older Dating Site Guide

Everyone wants to know what the best site is for older guys to meet younger guys. The jury is in and here is the verdict. Let me know what you think in the comments below…

Grouped by the type of patrons they serve. (Each group starting with the best first)

http://silverfoxie.com/
Launched in 2011
Revenue base: Member Supported
Known for being a GYO dating, romance, relationship based community. Features profile face pics, picture galleries, detailed profiles, an easy to use interface, basic profile template, basic and advanced search queries and R-rated user experience. 
Cost: $3 registration for 3 premium months, with a $1 premium per month or limited free option available after registration. 
Positives: Low cost, no ads, no porn, face pics
Negatives: Medium sized database, limited features

http://daddyhunt.com/
Launched in 2005
Revenue base: Click-Ads and Member Supported
Known for being a GYO hookup, dating, romance, relationship based community. Features profile face pics, picture galleries, detailed profile template, an easy to use yet somewhat dated interface, basic profile stats, detailed profile stats, basic and advanced search queries and R-rated user experience. 
Cost: $10 monthly premium fee, with a limited free option. 
Positives: No porn, face pics, large database
Negatives: High monthly cost, Ads, Limited website technology and design

http://silverdaddies.com/
Launched in 1998
Revenue base: Click-Ads, Porn Video Sales and Member Supported
Known for being a GYO hookup, married guy dating and porn entertainment. Features profile cock shots, low-resolution picture galleries, basic profile template, porn at every click, an archaic user interface, basic profile stats, detailed profile stats, basic and advanced search queries and NC-17-rated user experience. 
Cost: $5 monthly premium monthly fee, with a limited free option. 
Positives: Large database
Negatives: Porn, dick pics, Ads, flaky married men and young scammers, dated website technology/design.

http://www.caffmoscommunity.com
Launched in 1999
Revenue base: Member Supported
Known for being a GYO dating, romance, relationship based community. Features profile face pics, picture galleries, detailed profile template, an easy to use yet somewhat dated interface, basic profile stats, detailed profile stats, basic and advanced search queries and R-rated user experience.
Cost: $10 monthly premium fee, with a limited free option. 
Positives: Low cost, face pics
Negatives: Small database, old website technology and design

http://apollonetwork.com
Launched in 1999
Revenue base: Member Supported
Known for being a GYO dating, romance, relationship based community. Features profile face pics, low resolution picture galleries, detailed profile template, an easy to use yet somewhat dated interface, basic profile stats, detailed profile stats, basic and advanced search queries and R-rated user experience. $10 monthly premium fee, with a limited free option.
Cost: $10 monthly premium fee, with a limited free option. 
Positives: Low cost, face pics
Negatives: Small database, old website technology and design

http://daddydater.com/
Launched in 2007
Revenue base: Click-Ads, Porn Video Sales and Member Supported
Known for being a GYO hookup, married guy dating and porn entertainment. Features profile cock shots, low-resolution picture galleries, basic profile template, porn at every click, an archaic user interface, basic profile stats, detailed profile stats, basic and advanced search queries and NC-17-rated user experience. 
Cost: $10 monthly premium fee, with a limited free option. 
Positives: Large database
Negatives: Porn, dick pics, Ads, flaky married men and young scammers, dated website technology/design .

http://graygay.com/
Search no longer functioning
Cost: $10 monthly premium fee, with a limited free option. 
Positives:
Negatives: Ads, flaky married men and young scammers, dated website technology/design, small database.

http://seeksolder.com/
Search no longer functioning
Cost: $10 monthly premium fee, with a limited free option. 
Positives:
Negatives: Ads, flaky married men and young scammers, dated website technology/design, small database.

Bear Dating Sites

http://bearforest.com/
Launched in 1998
Revenue base: Click-Ads, Porn Video Sales and Member Supported
Known for being a GYO bear hookup, married guy dating and porn entertainment. Features profile cock shots, high-resolution picture galleries, basic profile template, porn at every click, an archaic user interface, basic profile stats, detailed profile stats, basic and advanced search queries and NC-17-rated user experience. 
Cost: $9 monthly premium monthly fee, with a limited free option. 
Positives: Bears
Negatives: Porn, dick pics, Ads, flaky married men and young scammers, small database, dated website technology/design, weak search features.

http://biggercity.com
Launched in ???
Revenue base: Click-Ads, Porn Video Sales and Member Supported
Known for being a GYO Chub hookup, married guy dating and porn entertainment. Features profile cock shots, high-resolution picture galleries, basic profile template, porn at every click, an archaic user interface, basic profile stats, detailed profile stats, basic and advanced search queries and NC-17-rated user experience. 
Cost: $5 monthly premium monthly fee, with a limited free option. Positives: Chubs
Negatives: Porn, Ads, small database, dated website technology/design, weak search and exploration features.

http://bear411.com
Launched in 1998
Revenue base: Click-Ads and Member Supported
Known for being a Bear hookup and romance community. Features archaic website technology low resolution profile pics, low-resolution picture galleries, basic profile template, an archaic user interface, basic profile stats, basic and advanced search queries and R-rated user experience. 
Cost: $5 monthly premium monthly fee, with a limited free option. Positives: Bears
Negatives: Ads, flaky married men, dated website technology/design exploration, weak search and exploration features.

http://bearwww.com
Launched in ???
Revenue base: Click-Ads and Member Supported
Known for being a Bear hookup and romance community. Features archaic website technology low resolution profile pics, low-resolution picture galleries, basic profile template, an archaic user interface, basic profile stats, basic and advanced search queries and R-rated user experience. 
Cost: $5 monthly premium monthly fee, with a limited free option. Positives: Bears
Negatives: Ads, flaky married men, dated website technology/design exploration, weak search and exploration features.

http://bearfront.com
Launched in 1998
Revenue base: Click-Ads, Porn Video Sales and Member Supported
Known for being a Bear hookup, married guy dating and porn entertainment. Features profile cock shots, low-resolution picture galleries, basic profile template, porn at every click, an archaic user interface, basic profile stats, detailed profile stats, basic and advanced search queries and NC-17-rated user experience. 
Cost: $5 monthly premium monthly fee, with a limited free option. 
Positives: Large database
Negatives: Porn, dick pics, Ads, flaky married men and young scammers, dated website technology/design.

http://gaychubbydating.com
Launched in ???
Revenue base: Click-Ads and Member Supported
Known for being a Chub hookup and married guy dating. Features archaic website technology low resolution profile pics, low-resolution picture galleries, basic profile template, an archaic user interface, basic profile stats, basic and advanced search queries and R-rated user experience. 
Cost: $5 monthly premium monthly fee, with a limited free option. Positives: Chubs
Negatives: Ads, small database, dated website technology/design, weak search and exploration features.

Gay and Straight Dating Site

http://match.com
Launched in 1995
Revenue base: Click-Ads and Member Supported
Known for being a gay/straight dating, romance, relationship based community. Features profile face pics, picture galleries, detailed profile template, an easy to use yet somewhat dated interface, basic profile stats, detailed profile stats, basic and advanced search queries and R-rated user experience. 
Cost: $20 monthly premium fee, with NO limited free option. 
Positives: No porn, face pics, large database
Negatives: Extremely high monthly cost, Ads, Limited website technology and design

http://chemistry.com/

http://okcupid.com

Gay Dating Sites

http://manhunt.com

http://www.adam4adam.com

http://gaycupid.com

apps

http://www.grindr.com/
Launched in 2009
Revenue base: Click-Ads and Member Supported
Known for being a gay hookup and sex based community. Features profile face pics, picture galleries, basic profile template, an easy to use interface, basic profile stats, basic search queries and R-rated user experience. 
Cost: $12 – $60 monthly premium fee, with a limited free option. 
Positives: No porn, face pics, large database
Negatives: High monthly cost, Ads

http://www.growlrapp.com/
Launched in 2009
Revenue base: Click-Ads and Member Supported
Known for being a gay hookup and sex based community. Features profile face pics, picture galleries, basic profile template, basic profile stats, basic search queries and R-rated user experience. 
Cost: $12 monthly premium fee, with a limited free option. 
Positives: No porn, face pics, large database
Negatives: High monthly cost, Ads, Limited website technology and design

http://www.scruff.com

http://www.misterapp.com

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Get your Gay Younger Older Embroidered Flag & Stickers
They’re ready to sew on your favorite shirt jacket or backpack. 

To get your own send a small donation to cover postage using venmo or paypal (include your address) We’ll send you 2 patches and a bunch of stickers!

Consider a donation to our GYO fund. Proceeds go toward future GYO events and Merch.

GYO Embroidered Patches are here!

Gay Younger Older Embroidered Flag
Gay Younger Older Embroidered Flag

Get your Gay Younger Older Embroidered Flag
They’re ready to sew on your favorite shirt jacket or backpack.

To get your own send a donation using venmo or paypal (include your address) We’ll send you 2 patches and a few stickers!

Consider a donation to our GYO fund. Proceeds go toward future GYO events.

GYO T-shirt Coming Soon!

After a bit of a wait, GYO T-shirts, Stickers, and Embroidered Patches are coming!

T-shirts available in any color as long as it's black!
T-shirts available in any color as long as it’s black!

Embroidered GYO t-shirts are high-quality black 100% cotton available in S, M, L, XL, XXL sizes. GYO Logo is Embroidered. $30, comes with 2 stickers and 1 patch.

(All proceeds go to the GYO funds go toward GYO events promotion and administration.)

It’s the New Year and it’s time for a GYO meetup. GYO NYC JANUARY 16TH!

Come to the Drunken Horse next to the highline on Wed January 16th, between 7:30 and 9:30pm. Look for us at the back table near the iPad with the GYO flag https://gayyoungold.com/flag/gyo.jpg

GYO meetups are for couples and GYO individuals to meet and commune.
We meet looking for comradery and friendship. It’s not for guys to hook up. Consider a $5 donation, keep events supported.

It’s a very casual place with a full bar and fair prices (as far as NYC is concerned) It’s not a party, just show up, get a drink and chat, or be a bar fly

See you there!

Hey GYO, Let’s Make a tShirt!

To start the new year, wouldn’t be cool to have a GYO t-shirt? What would you like it to say? This is your opportunity to design a shirt. We can incorporate the GYO flag and reddit or just GYO.

You can use this t-shirt template for your design.

What are some of your ideas? Consider t-shirt, ink colors and cost. (Save money by using less ink, mono-color, and reduced design intricacy)

Can’t wait to see what we come up with!

Announcing the next GYO Meetup – Dec 5th – NYC!

It’s time for a December GYO meetup. GYO NYC!

Come to the Drunken Horse next to the highline on Wed Dec 5th, between 7:30 and 9:30pm. Look for us at the back table near the iPad with the GYO Flag

GYO meetups are for couples and GYO individuals to meet and commune.

We meet looking for comradery and friendship. It’s not for guys to hook up. Consider a $5 donation keep events supported

It’s a very casual place with a full bar and fair prices (as far as NYC is concerned) It’s not a party, just show up, get a drink and chat, or be a bar fly

See you there!

Our Mission

The Quick History of GYO
This group started on a summer day (June 20th) in 2011. I was posting to r/lgbt and r/gay about my older dates. The overwhelming response was ‘date your own age’ in a fairly rude tone. That day, I created r/GayYoungOld. Over the next few weeks I posted content and tried to get people to read it and subscribe. Building the first 100 people was the hardest part and after that there was a natural interest and intrinsic growth. I wasn’t alone anymore…

Our Mission and Goal
To be honest, this GYO was more than just a place for anonymous reddit users to talk about how they were living. I wanted to change the larger LGBT community, to respect older younger relationships as legitimate. rGYO isn’t trophy boys and sugar-daddies as so many outsiders would tend to believe. We’ve seen those and they aren’t about sharing life and deep connections. Now it turns out, reshaping a community’s views is a bigger task than I had first envisioned. We would first need to build a community of our own and spread the message that GYO relationships are healthy and beneficial for the individuals and for society. We help each other, older and younger, in ways other relationships can’t. There are some difficult parts too, and that’s part of why we are here now talking sharing and living with GayYoungOld attractions and couples.

We’ve seen other younger older internet communities and they aren’t this cool. GYO has become one of the most interesting LGBT subs on reddit and we’ve expanded to Facebook and Meetup. Our content is original and deep, our community is helpful and nurturing, and you all help the moderators to reject bad content and toxic users. (Make no mistake, that is by design, thanks in part to our super mod team.) You are 10 of thousands of members from around the world acting as a loudspeaker to the rest of the world; Our attractions are beautiful and as a group we are powerful!